Sass & Surrender Episode 19: Being A Spanko In A Vanilla World

Hosts drew_Spanks and I_Fly_Away share engagement news and unpack what it’s like to be spankos in a vanilla world during an extended family vacation. They tell stories about sneaking moments together, car spankings, quiet implements, and how they travel with gear.

The episode also covers coming out to friends and family—supportive dad and brother, a less accepting mom—plus practical tips for privacy, packing, creating a private spank space at home, and small ways to keep kink alive while staying true to yourself.