Sass & Surrender Podcast

Hosts drew_spanks and I_Fly_Awag join a lively beach-house spanking party with guests Trouble, Kendra, Marc and more. The episode shares origin stories of how participants found the scene, highlights weekend moments and inside jokes, and captures the warm, playful atmosphere of a close-knit group.
Listeners hear about creative games (Spanko Clue, Up-and-Down Spanko River, Crab Walk), discussions of consent and safety at small parties, and practical advice for newcomers: be yourself, communicate limits, build friendships, and step out of your comfort zone.

Hosts drew_spanks and I_Fly_Away talk candidly about what makes a spanking scene — the difference between casual play and intentional scenes, the role of setting, props, music and timing, and how planning and hygiene matter. They describe what makes scenes memorable, from punishment that builds connection to playful limit-pushing with new partners.
The episode also covers when scenes go wrong: consent, miscommunication, safe words, rebuilding trust, and learning from mistakes. Drew and Fly stress clear negotiation, empathy, and ongoing communication as the keys to better, safer scenes.

Hosts drew_spanks and I_Fly_Away chat with StormyGin and GeminiBlack about their journeys from FetLife and munches to dungeons and spanko events. The episode explores how the spanking community and BDSM scene differ in vibe, negotiation, and social dynamics.
Guests share origin stories, discuss play styles and implements, and highlight what each community could learn from the other—especially around consent, communication, and welcoming newcomers.

Hosts drew_Spanks and I_Fly_Away share engagement news and unpack what it’s like to be spankos in a vanilla world during an extended family vacation. They tell stories about sneaking moments together, car spankings, quiet implements, and how they travel with gear.
The episode also covers coming out to friends and family—supportive dad and brother, a less accepting mom—plus practical tips for privacy, packing, creating a private spank space at home, and small ways to keep kink alive while staying true to yourself.

In this episode the hosts drew_spanks & I_Fly_Away chat with Payzleigh about her spanko origin story, evolving from childhood curiosity to a confident female top. They discuss parties, practicing techniques, professional topping, long-distance discipline, and the sensory and emotional sides of spanking scenes.
Key takeaways include practical safety and consent advice, negotiation and boundaries, tips for new tops (like using towels, starting OTK, and vetting partners), and creative discipline tools such as corner time, lines, and FaceTime check-ins.

Hosts drew_spanks and I_Fly_Away interview Mr. and Mrs. Firm Embrace about their international spanko romance — how early interests led them online, marathon video calls, and their first in-person visits that included the first real punishments.
The episode covers long-distance domestic-discipline dynamics, building trust through vulnerability, and practical encouragement to be bold and pursue meaningful spanko connections.

Hosts drew_spanks and I_Fly_Away welcome Scott from True Alignment to discuss his spanking origin story, embracing switch identity, and how woodworking became part of his healing journey leading him to craft handmade paddles.
The episode features an on-air test of two signature paddles, conversation about craftsmanship, community, authenticity in kink, and practical ordering details for listeners interested in Scott’s custom implements.

In this episode of Sass and Surrender, hosts Drew and Fly chat with JoJo Shenanigans about her lifelong love of spanking, discovering the kink community online, and her journey as a true switch. JoJo shares origin stories from childhood, coming out to herself, party experiences, and the challenges of mixing dynamics with romantic relationships.Tune in for candid conversation about discipline vs. play, negotiating consent and boundaries, switching roles in scenes, and how spanking can be a form of healing, growth, and connection.

Hosts drew_spanks and I_Fly_Away discuss how to balance a romantic relationship with a 24/7 power-exchange dynamic. Using personal stories—including a post national party emotional reset, heavy discipline as reassurance, and scene-based play—they explore boundaries, expectations, and the importance of honest communication.
 
They offer practical takeaways: set clear rules, prioritize partner time, be upfront about feelings, and nourish the vanilla side of your relationship while maintaining care and responsibility in kink dynamics.

Hosts drew_spanks and I_Fly_Awag recap their packed weekend at GASP, sharing highlights from Camp Corporal, Wayward, the spanking carousel, vendor fair buys, and memorable play sessions with friends and new contacts.
They also reflect on lessons learned about pacing, balancing partner time and bookings, and small suggestions for improving future events.